Have you got a reactive, anxious, Growly, Dog?

🐾 Are you one of those people who creeps about in the dark walking your dog, for fear of meeting … anybody?

🐾 Are you fed up with the snooty looks and snide remarks about “that vicious dog”?

🐾 Are you frustrated by finding only ‘trainers’ who want you to do nasty things to your dog, rather than loving them - as you do?

If so, I want to draw your attention to From Growly Dog to Confident Dog.

And rather than me saying what a wonderful program it is (well, I would, wouldn’t I!) I’m letting some of my long-term students say what they think.

Many of my students have been with me for years. Why?

Because this system works!

So here are pieces from three very different students with very different dogs:

See what you make of what they say! And if you are inspired to learn more, start with our free Masterclass for Growly Dogs

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When Lois was a puppy, I always dreamt and hoped she would be a cute little dog, a “well-behaved” little dog, that I could proudly walk down the street with - my calm, well-trained, obedient little “Angel”.

I soon realised that wasn’t to be!

She became a fearful, reactive dog. Nothing bad had happened in her life to provoke this behaviour, it’s just how she was. I dreaded walking out with her as her reactivity soon became unmanageable - ferociously barking, screaming, lunging, growling at every dog and child we came across. Taking her into pubs, cafés, shops, any public place, was unthinkable. She was a total nightmare. “What have I done” I would often think. Many tears were shed.

But then I discovered Beverley Courtney .. and after being misled by so many trainers prior, Beverley was our lifesaver. First I read her books, and I was so impressed. This type of dog training was kind, I loved it!

So then I worked through her brilliant courses. I soon learned how to understand WHY Lois behaved as she did, and how to manage her behaviour, and to be respectful, and be her advocate. Working slowly through Beverley’s modules, at our own pace, and never skipping anything, or starting midway, Lois and I became a team. Beverley was .. and still is .. there for us every step of the way. Her support is immense, and her willingness to share her knowledge is incredible.

Lois and I began to understand each other - she is encouraged to make her own choices in life, and she is NEVER forced into situations where she feels threatened or frightened. Yes it has taken time, hard work, and lots of patience, but she is now the calmest of dogs. And I can confidently walk out with her, knowing that she feels safe and comfortable with me, by using the strategies that Beverley taught me. I manage Lois’ reactivity in the kindest of ways. We get so many compliments now, and being with her gives me the most pleasure in life.

If I could wave a magic wand and change Lois into a non-reactive dog, would I do that? Absolutely NOT! I wouldn’t change her for the world. She is unique, she has character, she trusts me, and that’s what I love. She is Lois. 🐾

This is all thanks to Beverley ❤️ She has saved us from a life of misery and regret.

Carol Russell

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I am so relieved and grateful to have found the Growly Dog Program. Before joining Dudley was so anxious and reactive, and we wanted to find someone who would help with kindness and care.

This is exactly what you get from Beverley!

Apart from her many qualifications and experience she truly has the dog's best interest at heart. The step-by-step course is easy to follow and the monthly calls are invaluable. Questions are answered fully with great advice. The community is there so you can get help at any time with supportive people who really understand. 

Dudley is a much calmer happy dog. Thank you Beverley!

Sue Wright

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I was very frustrated with my dog’s behavior, and honestly did not know where to begin.

I joined Beverley's Growly Dog online program in 2019, and my dog's improvement has been remarkable. As I write this, my reactive dog is lying on his bed chewing on his bone … what is amazing about this scenario is there are workers in the next room drilling! Prior to taking the course, my dog would have been running around the room barking nonstop causing us both a lot of stress.

Other areas of improvement include walking by my side instead of pulling; greeting people we meet on our walk, returning to me, and lying down by my feet as we chat; lying down beside me when people are visiting at our house; no more jumping, pulling, lunging, and nonstop barking.

I cannot overemphasize the amount of ongoing support offered by Beverley and her two trainers. You can ask questions in the online community and monthly Zoom coaching calls. You receive personalized advice specific to your needs. There are several other available resources that you can explore on her website.

My relationship with my dog has improved so much. He has grown more confident and less fearful by playing the training games I learned in the course. I have also grown more confident by learning strategies I can use to manage the situations we may encounter.

Sue Brandenburg

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Read enough to tickle your curiosity? Watch the Masterclass to get a feel of how this program works so well! Any questions, just ask in the chat on the Masterclass page.

We’d love to see you there and help you and your dog enjoy a calmer, more fulfilling, life.

So you can reach the level that Sue, Carol, and Sue reached for their dogs.

Why Did My Dog’s Reactivity Get Worse, When I’m Trying My Best?

First published on positively.com and reprinted here with permission

Does your reactive dog seem to be getting worse?

More fearful, anxious, or aggressive - not less?

There are a few key strategies you can put in place very easily that will make a dramatic difference to how your dog perceives the world.

Here’s an excerpt from my three books on Growly Dogs - Essential Skills for your Growly but Brilliant Family Dog

This is Chapter 5 from the first book Why is my dog so growly? It’ll get you started on the road to change.

Chapter 5: Why did it get worse, when I’m trying my best?

It will get worse - unless dealt with

There are some things that dogs do that will go away on their own. Some puppy behaviours, like chewing, submission-weeing, digging, will simply evaporate if carefully managed. But there are other things - usually the things we really don’t want! - that will build and build, getting worse and worse, until we decide to act.

When we do something for the first time, a neural pathway in the brain is built. To begin with this pathway is fairly narrow and hard to find. Think, learning to drive a car - it’s all foreign to us and hard to remember the sequences. But the more we repeat that thing, the wider and brighter the neural pathway becomes until we can just slide down it without a thought. It becomes our go-to response. We can drive on auto-pilot!

So every time your dog does something, he’s building those neural pathways bigger and stronger. He doesn’t have to think hard, as the learner-driver would to locate which pedal to press. It becomes his automatic, instant, response. In the case of our reactive dog: “See dog: bark!”

While this all started as a fear response, it’s now become a habit as well. So while we change the fear response, we will also be teaching new and better habits.

It works for the dog 

If there’s something that’s frightening you, your first instinct is to get away from it. If you can’t get away from it, you’ll try to get it away from you. Hence some manic responses to a wasp in the house!

When your dog puts on a song and dance routine of barking, whining, lunging, and prancing, at the sight of another dog, he’s trying to get it to go away.

And this often works! Either

• the other dog is frightened off and moves away

• the other dog’s owner thinks “this is a nasty dog” and turns away, 

  OR

• the barking dog’s owner is shamed into beating a hasty retreat

If it works, he’ll keep doing it. Because he has no other course of action to rely on. 

Fight or Flight

This well-known expression really comes into its own with the reactive dog. It’s the reason many people think their dog is “fine” off-lead, but turns into a monster on-lead. As we saw in Chapter 1, this dog is usually not as “fine” as people think. It’s only because the off-lead dog has the freedom to move away (flight) that things don’t go badly wrong.

Once your dog is tethered to you, however, he knows he can’t flee, so this leaves only fight. This can all be made worse by the fact that he’s unable to express his body language and calming signals. It’s difficult to look nonchalant and relaxed if your head is being held up in the air.

Trapped in a tunnel!

This feeling of being restrained or trapped can also be made worse by being in a “tunnel”. This is the stuff of nightmares for many people: ahead is an all-consuming fire, behind is a crush of people and cars - panic!

For your dog this tunnel could be made up of walls and hedges and parked cars, as on a street pavement, or can be a real tunnel of a narrow footpath with walls and trees either side. Even being 10 yards from a field barrier - trees, or a hedge - can prompt the fight reflex, as the flight option is limited.

And what does the owner bring to this party?

Sadly, we often make this all far, far worse.

I know we don’t want to, and we think we’re doing everything we can to stop it. But we do tend to add fuel to the fire.

If you’re like 99% of reactive dog owners, you’ll be in a continuous state of shock and apprehension when out with your dog - just waiting for something to kick off. So you wind the lead round your hand a few times, just to be sure, to be sure. You keep your dog on a tight lead, close to you - as if creeping through enemy territory and waiting for mines to start exploding any moment.

And the second you spot another dog - BANG! Off goes the first mine. You gasp and breathe in sharply, you go trembly and flustery, you tighten that lead even further, gripping it to your chest. “Oh no!” says your dog, “What’s she so afraid of? What have I got to bark at?”

Your understandable fear and anxiety over your dog is now triggering your dog’s outburst. 

A loose cannon

It may be that, up to now, you’ve really had little understanding of why your dog behaves as she does. You know all too well how she behaves! It seems to you that she is unpredictable. She’s lovely at home, so why does she put on this other persona when out?

You’ve come to distrust your friend. 

And this feeling of unease, distrust, panic, seeps into even the calmest of walks. Your dog is now on her toes! If you’re afraid, then there must be something bad out there. Your dog will work hard to locate it and try and keep it away.

How stressful a pleasant walk with your dog has become!

This is no fun for either of you, and this is what we are going to change. But wait, there’s more you need to know first.

A social pariah

Maybe you’ve found that the only way out of this nightmare is to walk your dog at 5 in the morning, or at dead of night - at The Hour of the Difficult Dog. The only people you see are other owners of difficult dogs, who will scurry away like rats in the sunlight as soon as they spot you.

You have now become a social pariah. When you first got your dog, you had happy visions of companionable walks with friends and their dogs. What has happened? Walks have now become a chore. There’s no fun here for either you or your dog.

You know that what you’ve been doing up to now is not working. So here’s a complete turnaround for you - and you’ll be quite amazed at the difference it will make!

ACTION STEP 4

As soon as you spot another dog,

1. Relax

2. Soften your hands on the lead, keeping it loose


3. Breathe out


4. Say cheerily to your dog, “Let’s go!” while you turn and head the other direction

I can hear your protests already! Just try it. We’ll address problems and fallout later.

To read more, go to www.brilliantfamilydog.com/growly-boxset where you’ll find all three books in ebook and paperback and a box-set of all of them at once.

And to get started straight away with lessons to help your Growly Dog, watch our free Masterclass for Growly Dogs

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